Chemistry Matters...rest all is gravy!!!

delhi edition of gupshup ;)

So for long nothing worth writing seemed to be coming my way and then our mumbai gupshup host made a comment and voila....it seems to be stuck in my head....chemistry matters! Rest all is gravy !!!

another mantra i have learnt in my life through own and others experiences is --- to love without a reason....really the mumbai edition once asked me --- if you love someone for a reason n the reason goes away then will your love vanish?? hmmmm so what are the ways one can love and does "chemistry matters, rest all is gravy" really is perhaps an extension of the same thought??

so what are the reasons one can 'love' (though i wonder if that will really be love or something else):
1. u may 'love' coz the other person loves you (yes..its the most common-est reasons!!)
2. coz they care for your family (its very important for some people)
3. coz they listen to u / they r caring ..
4. coz he finances ur shopping (yes, i have heard it with my own 'unbelievable' ears...reason enuf to marry!)
5. coz they understand u (thts a tough one...hmmmm but at some point they may just not see ur point of view...)
6. coz he/she is drop dead gorgeous (hehehe thts a strong temptation...winkss!!)

and so we can go on n on....but then they can be transitory reasons....

and in the end...if we can love a person without a reason -- it is the sort of love which can stand the test of time....what about our parents...they love us through all the years of growing up...its one of those difficult questions...i have been lucky to have a mom who absolutely loves me even when i am a complete nin-compoop!! but can we love someone with the same selflessness even when we are not related by birth??

what is it that inspires that sort of love....well there is no reason and maybe people have come up with all sorts of theories -- maybe its past life karma, twin-souls, soulmates....i don't know what it is but at the end...if you have that bond with someone....you don't understand the reason...its just chemistry....you can't understand why you feel the way you do...treasure it!! Rest all is gravy!!!!!!

ps - love without a reason is perhaps the complete-est way of loving and being loved... :)

love to all
Delhi signing off!!!